A common point of confusion within broader culture is the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity.
Swinging is a form of non-monogamy, where couples or individuals engage in consensual sex with others. It's essential to note that swinging is not cheating, as all parties involved are aware and agree to the arrangements. Swinging can take many forms, from soft swinging (watching or light touching) to full swapping (exchanging partners for sex). The swinging community emphasizes communication, respect, and boundaries.
To address your request, it is important to clarify that "shemale" is widely considered a derogatory slur in many professional and social contexts. In academic and contemporary research, the preferred terminology is "transgender woman" or "trans woman" (MTF).