Losing A Forbidden Flower -

Why do we reach for the forbidden? As seen in Baudelaire’s Les Fleurs du Mal (The Flowers of Evil), there is a magnetic pull in things that are unconventional or morally ambiguous. A forbidden flower is often:

This is the hardest task. You can regret a choice and still mourn the feeling. You can know the relationship was toxic and still miss the sunset. Guilt asks: "What did I do wrong?" Grief asks: "What did I lose?" Do not let guilt steal the microphone. Losing A Forbidden Flower

Human nature is magnetically drawn to the "off-limits." The forbidden flower is intoxicating because it exists outside the mundane. It represents a rebellion against the status quo, promising a fragrance more intense than anything found in the "allowed" garden. We convince ourselves that the risk of plucking it is a fair price for the thrill of its possession. The Moment of Loss Why do we reach for the forbidden